Research has shown that the communication styles of women and men differ significantly. This difference will help a couple manage their finances more efficiently and achieve goals more efficiently. Unfortunately, these advantages are not experienced by all women and men. The compatibility may not arise in daily interactions since both are more absorbed by their differences and both don’t experience the advantages of cooperation.
Men are more inclined to express their needs, interests, and wants and then wait till others do the same things. Women, in turn, are inclined to inquire or end their sentences with a question. This will often lead men to guess what their female partner wants. Women will gently give answers without expressing what they just want.
Men talk and disrupt much more whereas women like to respond on something said by others and frequently do not come back to the topic at hand after being interrupted.
Men talk about money in a competitive manner: “My investment in the stock market went up.” On the other hand girls do not talk about money in a competitive way. They even attempt to get around the subject of money in their conversations.
Let’s have a closer look at the different characters of men and women.
Character of Men
Men prefer to talk about impersonal topics and seldom admit having financial difficulties and need help to solve them. They are inclined to highlight the joys of freedom from duties and make decisions without consulting their partner. Men like to go right to the point of the problem or do an important thing to reach their goals. As an example, men go to the toilet to deliver something. On the other hand, women use the toilet to powder their noses, gossip and hang around. Obviously women consider the toilet for a multi functional room.
When conveying, guys like to begin talking about a problem at hand and concentrate on it whereas women do the opposite. After the conversation touches many other topics and drags on, they’ll stop absorbing relevant details. Women are much better to engage in conversations covering many subjects since they have multi-tracking brains.
How to Communicate with Guys
The character of men is stiffer compared to women and this must be understood during discussions. Avoid communication styles which are not to the point. This will not impress them and they’ll think badly about their counterparts. So try talk to the point, examine a issue thoroughly, avoid side tracking, use logic when expressing an opinion, avoid talking about other people, use easy words and a firm voice, enjoy them (stimulate their self), avoid belittling them with negative conclusions, and avoid debates if at all possible. Use exact numbers when talking to guys. By employing a more logical style emphasizing figures and numbers, men will be able to understand better. So when giving directions, avoid vague markings but give precise signs they can use to find their way.
There are huge differences between the characters of men and women. Women like to talk about themselves, their financial problems, and don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed. They do not consider this to be a burden. Thanks to their multi-tracking brain, women can talk about different topics in a fast way which is an amazing thing. Ladies like talk about other men and women. They can speak about others for hours with their female friends. The easily express their feelings and opinions. They value friendship a great deal and will request help and advice from their friends. They are less independent in decision making and need the support of men in this respect.
Women like to hear pleasant words which sound like music in their ears. They talk about sensitive issues indirectly and use imaginary examples to talk about a problem. However, they are great listeners and it is hard to accuse them of lying. Because of this, men like to lie through the phone which is significantly safer!
How to Communicate with Women
Women with their beauty are much more sensitive than men and also have many other superior traits which all require a gentle approach. When we make a mistake it is going to be difficult to repair it. When communicating with women attempt to avoid being to the point, talk about social things and daily life to attract their attention, use gentle and civilized words, utilize social and Centurian Wildlife, use moderate tone of voice, and use adequate and focused body language. It is possible to highlight some topics, but prevent statistics, numbers and other exact data. Appreciate them by praising all women in general. Of course compliment their clothes and accessories at the onset of conversation. Women like to form friendships instead of cold and stiff business relationships.
They prefer to cultivate long-term relationships and unlike guys, they do not like to look at relationships using a cost-benefit approach. When giving instructions do it like this: “The address you are searching for is nor far from here. You just have to pass McDonald’s on your left and the building you are looking for is just in front of you.” There are no specific numbers in this explanation, which will be far better known by women than men.